Stop worrying about what other people think of you.
Even if they don't like you and you know it on some level, agonizing about it is a way of being mean to yourself. You really can't change their mind... while you can go and try to mend the fence to the best of your ability, at the end of the day they have every right (even if they're totally wrong) to think what they want to think... and you have every right to not pay them any attention and enjoy being you more and more.
I know for many of us, it is incredibly painful to not have the approval of others. Particularly when you feel like you are being misunderstood or there is just a breakdown in communication. It can be fixed, right?
As optimistic as I tend to be, the answer is no, it probably can't be fixed. As I've said, many times, both people have to want to fix the situation for a relationship to be healed. And if the other person doesn't want to put in the work, it means they don't really care about you (so sorry if that seems harsh).
Why waste your precious life-force trying to convince someone who doesn't care about you that you are worthy? The process of trying to change their mind won't make you feel any more worthy... it will actually drain you of the energy you need to put into making yourself feel more amazing and magical. That's where real self-worth comes from.
So here's my Intuitive Coaching Message:
1. Start spending time with people who you really enjoy.... And if you don't have anyone like that in your life, learn to be your own best friend. Enjoy your own company because I promise you that once you do, you will attract lots of amazing people to you as a result.
2. Give your full attention to what really matters in your life. Take really great care of yourself. There is always something you could do to feel more relaxed, better in your body, smarter, more enlightened, richer, more comfortable, more fulfilled, and more successful. Focus on that stuff instead that one low-energy person who's not into you.
Go within, ask your intuitive self to come forward and show you how to best use your energy. A sign will show up. Follow it. And then watch a magical shift occur... You'll be so focused on the goodness in your life that you'll be incapable of worrying about what other people think of you.
You're already amazing. Yep. You. Why not start living like it?
Did this message move you? Did you have an "ah-a"? Or an Amen or Hallelujah moment? Tell me about it. I LOVE to hear your experiences. Drop me a note.
I'm so in love with you,
So... I launched a coaching call program this week. I'm so excited(!) to finally be able to coach specifically on these areas. I want to keep these calls small. My intention is give my full attention (in the way that I do in my 1:1 sessions) to every participant on the call so they can finally heal these issues.
If you're thinking about joining a call, please sign up early.
While I typically don't care if you wait to the last minute... I'm the queen of last minute, since these topics are so broad, I want to intuitively tune in to each participant before the call so I can provide the best guidance in the 2-hour timeframe. In other words, I don't want to come in cold. So help me, help you. If you're inspired to join any of these calls, sign up today.
Upcoming Coaching Calls
Mastering Procrastination: A group coaching call to help you stop waiting and start doing. Saturday, 11/07/15, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m., PST
Everyday Intuition: A group coaching call to help you trust your intuition moment by moment. Saturday, 11/14/15, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m., PST
Overcoming Shyness: A group coaching call to help Introverts shine in an Extroverted world. Saturday, 11/21/15, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m., PST
Pick the Right Partner: A group coaching call to help you clearly identify the right person to date. Saturday, 12/05/15, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m., PST
For more information on each call and to register click here.