We don't give it our all because we are afraid we'll be disappointed.
I know that you, like me, have had situations where you put your heart and soul into something and it didn't work out as you'd hoped OR you were flat-out rejected. Disappointment is one of the worst pains you can experience in this lifetime.
If you just cringed a bit, this is a sign that the pain of disappointment is imprinted on your subconscious mind. As a result, you hold back, procrastinate, avoid, shutdown, engage in self-sabotaging behaviors or play small so you don't ever have to feel that pain again.
Even when you know exactly what to do to create the success you desire, you still find a way to talk/think/act yourself out of a win. And the worst of it all, all those thoughts and actions seem like the right thing to do. You can come up with a million reasons to support your self-sabotage in your mind and they sound or seem like really good points. In order words, they seem like truth.
If there is something that you are wanting, truly wanting, then that means that you can to have it. What blocks the manifestation of your desire is the programming in your subconscious mind that says you can't go for it.
So how do you solve the problem? 1. You explore the "why" behind your thoughts/feelings/actions/behaviors. 2. Then you do the opposite of what is blocking you from having what you want.
Seems easy, right? Oh how I wish.
Again, your subconscious mind has been programmed to keep you from having what you want so you avoid pain. It will fight to keep you safe. When you start trying to do things differently so you can finally have what you want, it will do everything to derail your effort.
This is the number one reason why you need a coach, guide or mentor. Someone who can clearly point out your blind spots and help you create a plan to achieve the results you desire. You need someone who can hear, see, know and feel your self-sabotaging behaviors.
While the psychic in me loves the one time session, the coach in me knows that the only way to really heal and transform any situation is by committing to take consistent action on a regular basis. You deserve to finally have all that you've been dreaming, wishing and hoping for. This why I want to encourage you to hire a coach.
You can hire me. My rates are great and I use the intuitive/spiritual to empower you to stay on course. Or you can hire someone else. Just say a prayer and the right coach for you will appear. The energy behind your investment will be returned 10-fold.
2016 is the energetic vibration you've been waiting for. There is nothing that can hold you back. All is energetically working for your greater good next year. The only thing that will keep you from achieving all that you wish to accomplish (and in a way that feels good), is your own mind.
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