My mom flirts everywhere she goes. She can create a spark while waiting in the lobby at her doctor's office. In line at the market. Even at a funeral. As a result, she is always dating.
Flirting is simply sharing your light with the world. It's a smile. It's kindness. It's the well-executed joke. It's feeling and looking your best so the love you have for yourself permeates your aura and grasps the attention of everyone you meet.
Again, flirting is simply sharing your light. Your light is the innate spark that you were born with. You don't have to do anything to cultivate this light. Just be present. Open. Receptive.
Here's the thing. You can flirt even if you're partnered up. Our culture has led us to believe that flirting is a sexual art reserved only for singles, but in fact the best sales people, politicians and personalities all flirt. They are sharing their light at every turn. Flirting is saying to the Universe, I am so worthy of attention. Kindness. Consideration. Love.
Flirt and get noticed. You deserve the love.
#2: How to Court by the Numbers
Here is how to win the hearts of each Numerology Life Path. To calculate their life path, add up all the numbers in their full birthday and reduce it to 1 digit. Example: April 14, 1980: 4+1+4+1+9+8+0=27 reduced to one digit 2+7=9
If you're dating or interested in a:
1 Life Path: Praise and admiration wins their heart. Criticism turns them off.
2 Life Path: Make tangible romantic gestures. Cards, candy, flowers, candle lit dinners. Not much can turn off a 2, but making a grand gesture wins them over.
3 Life Path: Laugh at their jokes. Hold a space for them to tell their story. Actively give them attention. Ignoring a 3 is a thumbs down.
4 Life Path: Be consistent, stable, secure and gentle. 4s are easily overwhelmed with drama, chaos, feeling rushed and unpredictability.
5 Life Path: Be fun, spontaneous and adventurous in a way that is alignment with their interests. The fastest way to end a relationship with a 5 is getting too serious and implementing a routine too early in the courtship.
6 Life Path: Help them out. They have a habit of taking on the world. Ask how you can be of service to them. Being too needy or co-dependent will eventually send them running. They want to take care of you without feeling like they have to.
7 Life Path: Give them space while still being completely present in the relationship. Smothering a 7 with conversation and affection or getting upset with them when they retreat will cause them to rethink the relationship.
8 Life Path: Look good, appreciate all they do, be willing to engage in the best that life has to offer and never, ever cheat. 8s work hard. They like the finer things in life. They also like complete devotion. The fastest way to get pushed out of a relationship with an 8 is to be unappreciative, careless or unfaithful.
9 Life Path: Respect and honor their keen intelligence and wisdom. Optimism and kindness melts their heart. Being too negative or cynical will cause them to avoid you.
This lesson is simple: Know that what makes you sexy, attractive and irresistible is your self-confidence. If for any reason you are not assured in your magnificence, then be willing to explore and clear those limiting beliefs. I once read about a woman who was overweight, but incredibly confident in who she was and as a result she never had any trouble attracting love and attention from super-hot, charming successful men. Self-confidence trumps any character flaws you think you might have. Always.
#4: Listen to the replay of The Healing Clinic: 11 Steps to Manifest Love.
#5: Know the Qualities in Yourself that You Want to Attract
I love lists. Make a list of all the qualities you love about yourself that you would like to attract in another person. Limit it to 10 traits. What makes you cool? Why are you a wonderful person? If you need help with this list, ask someone you trust to help you identify those qualities.
The act of putting this list together, not only increasing your self-confidence, but it activates the energetic vibration to manifest the type of mate that will most resonates with you. When you know yourself, you will be better able to navigate the landscape of love because you will clearly see the direction of your true heart center. Most importantly, you'll be less likely to spin your wheels in an undesirable relationship.
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